Photo Credit: Stuart Miles

The holidays are not a time for commercialization. The holidays are a time to gather family, friends and even strangers to celebrate. It does not matter if it’s a Merry Christmas, Seasons Greetings, Happy Hanukkah, or Kwanzaa; let’s examine ways to return the true meaning of the season.

Time. Chestnuts roasting on an open fire. Jack Frost nipping at your nose…Take time to enjoy the moment. Time with friends and family creating memories and traditions is one of the most valuable gifts we can give.

Be thoughtful. Gather your thoughts. Gather your loved ones. Now, kick off the celebration by writing down what you are thankful for this holiday. Following dinner take time to share everyone’s thanks out loud.

Open your table. There are many lonely people out there who don’t have a place to spend the holidays. Make room at your table for the person who’s partner passed, your single friend, a recent divorcee, a complete stranger, and so on.

Consumer, be gone.  Teach your children well. Take some holiday gifts received and bring them to a hospital, or a shelter on the holiday. Show our children how to give. Let them experience first hand how to turn a shopping holiday into a holiday of giving.

Give your “things” away. We live in a must have the next best toy and gadget world. Take time this holiday to de-clutter the mess. Cleanse your soul by cleaning out all your excess (toys, clothes, food). There are plenty of local organizations that can take those “things” off your hands.

Include faith. No matter your faith, make sure it’s there – it’s powerful and freeing to know it’s got your back.

Storm the holiday front with much gratitude and hope. May the spirit of the season be with you.

Peace and love,

Cristen